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THE MARRIAGE FAMILY

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Grow in truth. Build legacy. Return to the altar.

Equipping couples to build a marriage of fire, grow strong families, & walk in purpose.

Marriage was never meant to feel powerless, passive, or unclear.
We’re Mill and Reva Hart, and after 30 years of marriage, including seasons of broken trust, distance, and healing, we know what it means to rebuild with intention.

At MFM, we work with couples who are ready to grow.
Whether you're stuck in survival mode or seeking a deeper way to lead your family,you don’t need surface advice.

You need structure, strategy, and spiritual truth that makes sense in real life.

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It's time to make a change...

We don’t just help couples communicate better.


We help them rebuild from the inside out spiritually, emotionally, and strategically.

The Marriage Family Mandate is a discipleship-based approach to marriage coaching. That means we don’t give band-aids. We walk you through transformation.

We help couples:

  • Recover spiritual alignment in their marriage—not just emotional connection

  • Heal from betrayal, silence, shutdown, and emotional avoidance without blaming one another

  • Strengthen their leadership roles as husband and wife so they can lead their home with peace, not pressure

  • Establish new disciplines of prayer, structure, and accountability that shift the atmosphere in their home

  • Parent and partner with clarity—so the marriage isn’t lost under the weight of family life

Whether you’re leading a family, navigating personal healing, or standing in faith for your marriage. We teach you how to walk with truth, not just feelings.

How We Help

We don’t coach for comfort. We coach for change.
Everything we do is designed to equip you with tools that grow your marriage, not just patch it.

Here’s how we help couples walk in real transformation:

  • 1:1 Clarity + Prayer Sessions
    For spouses who feel alone, unsure, or overwhelmed—these sessions bring spiritual insight, emotional grounding, and clear next steps rooted in biblical truth.

  • Marriage Growth Coaching (Private or Group)
    We guide couples through structured, faith-based frameworks to heal, rebuild trust, and strengthen communication—with accountability and honest support.

  • The Covenant Table: Prayer Room for Husbands & Wives
    A sacred space where couples break the silence, seek God together, and reset their marriage in prayer and presence. No fluff. Just fire.

  • Devotionals, Challenges, and Teaching Tools
    For couples hungry to grow in spiritual maturity and learn how to lead their homes with purpose—not performance.

  • Workshops and Courses
    Live and on-demand equipping experiences to train you in what no one taught you—how to build a marriage and home that reflects God’s design

Effective Communication

Learn to speak with clarity, not confusion. We help you replace surface talk, shutdown, and blow-ups with truth-filled conversations that restore connection and respect.

Resolving Conflict with Wisdom
We teach you how to get to the root—not just manage symptoms. Our approach helps you recognize spiritual patterns, emotional triggers, and communication blocks so conflict becomes a place of growth, not damage.

Personal Growth & Alignment
You’ll identify the areas where you’ve lost yourself in the marriage—and where you’re growing stronger. We help you become emotionally healthy, spiritually aware, and confident in your God-given role.

Rebuilding Intimacy
We address the deeper blockages—resentment, mistrust, spiritual disconnection—that impact emotional and physical intimacy. Then we help you rebuild safety, affection, and true closeness.

Support Team

In our small group coaching sessions, we provide emotional support and guidance while navigating hard discussions. Its important for us to encourage you and your spouse to stay committed to each other and your relationship.

Spiritual Clarity & Leadership

Many couples love God—but don’t know how to lead their marriage with Him at the center. We help you build spiritual discipline, pray with purpose, and lead your home with confidence, peace, and alignment. No more guessing. You’ll learn how to hear God, make decisions in unity, and cover your family in truth.

LET'S WORK TOGETHER

Our two-on-two intensive and small group coaching services offer couples the opportunity to work collaboratively towards solutions and safety in their marriage. Our certified marriage coaches will provide the tools and techniques necessary to help couples build healthy relationships.

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COACHING

Ongoing

GROUP
COACHING

Two -on- two
Coaching Session

THE  DEEP DIVE SESSIONS

$100 per Session

One Single Session

90 MIN CALL  

Deep Dive session

1 x 90 - min. online

The sessions address 1 topic per session at a time but can be combined to create your own custom coaching package.
During the session, the couple will partner with their coach to design a plan for their marriage and move towards being a happy and thriving marriage.
We recommend a minimum of four sessions per couple in order to cover the chosen topics  to achieve the best outcome.

Example Topics:

  • Facing Fears, Frustrations, & Challenges in the marriage

  • Active listening & Communication tools

  • Resolve arguing effectively

  • Celebrate each others differences


*The Investment for this coaching session must be paid in full before Scheduling.*

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Marriage Recovery Coaching

The Repair Academy

Discover A  Second Chance .

     12 WKS / 12 CALLS  

THE REPAIR ACADEMY. 

  • Private Small group coaching 6-8 couples 

  • A trained coach with answers and direction for healing in your marriage.

  • Length 12 weeks

  • Meet once a week

  • Time & Homework Commitment: minimum of 2 -3.5 hours a week.

Pre-marital Coaching 

THE SELAH 

  PRE-MARRIAGE 

COACHING

$125 per session

8 PRIVATE SESSION/ 60 MIN  CALL  

Invest in your love story and set the stage for a marriage built on trust, understanding, and unwavering support.
● Navigate Potential Challenges :
communication, conflict resolution,
and shared values.
● Enhance Relationship Skills: Lay
the groundwork for open and honest
communication.
● Establish Shared Goals and

Expectations: financial planning

to family dynamics, and ensure unity and
harmony as you begin your married
life together.

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Frequently Asked Questions

WHAT IS A SET-APART CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE?

Q: What is Coaching with Mill & Reva Hart?
A: Coaching with Mill & Reva Hart is a marriage coaching and mentorship program designed to teach couples transform, build strong and healthy relationships.

Q: What are the benefits of working with Mill & Reva Hart?
A: By working with Mill & Reva Hart, you can benefit from personalized coaching and mentorship to help you overcome challenges and build a stronger relationship with your partner.

Q: How can I get started with Coaching with Mill & Reva Hart?
A: To get started, simply visit our website or contact us to schedule a consultation.

DO YOU HAVE A PAYMENT PLAN?

Our pricing varies depending on the service, but we offer payment plans to make our services more accessible. Contact us for a personalized quote.

 

WHAT IS YOUR COACHING STYLE?

Q: What is the coaching style of Mill & Reva Hart?
A: Mill & Reva Hart use a personalized approach to coaching that is tailored to the unique needs of each individual couple. They focus on developing practical skills, improving communication, and strengthening emotional bonds.

DO YOU HAVE A REFUND POLICY?

Q: What are the benefits of marriage coaching?
A: Marriage coaching can help you strengthen your relationship, improve your communication, and resolve conflicts. It can also help you work through difficult issues and challenges, and develop stronger emotional bonds.

Q: What is your refund policy?
A: We offer a satisfaction guarantee, which means that if you are not satisfied with our coaching services, we will work with you to address your concerns .

DO I NEED TO BE A  CHRISITAN  TO USE ANY OF THE MARRIAGE RESOURCES   ?

Anyone is welcome to engage in MFM offerings, regardless of religious background. In individual or group sessions, you choose how much you want to incorporate faith or spirituality. The Marriage Family Manadate programs are practical and relatable for all faiths, however, they are rooted in a Christian perspective of healing (based on implications of Jesus’ life, death, and resurrection). Someone who is not a Christian can have great success from the programs and is welcome to participate in all course/programs.  

HOW LONG ARE YOUR COACHING CALLS?

Q: How long are the coaching calls with Mill & Reva Hart?
A: Coaching calls with Mill & Reva Hart typically last for one hour. However, we can customize the length of coaching sessions to meet your specific needs and preferences.


 

Meet Your Coach,Mill & Reva

Discipling Marriages. Restoring Families. One Heart at a Time.

We’re not just marriage coaches—we’re a married couple who almost didn’t make it.
Twenty-nine years in, we’ve walked through betrayal, shutdown, disconnection, and spiritual silence… and we’ve come out with fire, faith, and a mandate.

We help couples do more than survive—we help them build marriages that are spiritually aligned, emotionally safe, and deeply purposeful.

Whether you're navigating a crisis or simply hungry for more, we walk with you to:

  • Communicate with truth and clarity

  • Heal from past pain or shutdown

  • Rebuild trust and intimacy without pretending

  • Lead your home with peace and order

  • And grow a marriage that strengthens—not stifles—your calling

Our coaching isn’t about fixing symptoms.
It’s about transforming the whole atmosphere of your home.

If you're ready to shift, we’re here to lead with strategy, faith, and truth that works.

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More than a coaching program...… A Covenant-Built Community

Marriage isn’t one-size-fits-all. That’s why The Marriage Family Mandate isn’t just a program—it’s a discipleship community that walks with you through every stage of your marriage journey.

Vision
 

You can’t build what you can’t see.
We help couples get clear on what their marriage is called to be—not just emotionally, but spiritually and practically. Vision gives you language, direction, and fuel for growth.

 

Alignment

When your marriage is out of order, everything feels harder.
We teach you how to walk in your role with peace, lead with confidence, and align your heart, habits, and home to God's design—not cultural confusion.

Legacy

You’re not just building for now. You’re building what your children will stand on.
We help couples create a marriage that multiplies—where truth, trust, and spiritual leadership get passed down.

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the best is yet to come.....

What’s to come in your relationship? the best version of your life together. As a marriage coach and mentors you can explore the deeper aspects of your relationship and achieve true happiness and fulfillment.

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